Teach Your Kids Important Phone Numbers Right Now (2 Min. Hack)

When my first daughter was little, I wanted her to know how to reach me in case of an emergency — but memorizing numbers wasn’t exactly a preschooler’s idea of fun. So I came up with a quick little hack that worked so well, I used it years later with my second daughter!

This simple activity helps kids see, say, and touch the numbers — hitting every learning style and making it stick. Best of all, it takes just a couple of minutes to make.

What You’ll Need

  • An old phone (disabled, or toy)
  • Round pricing stickers
  • Painter’s or masking tape
  • A marker

How to Make It

  1. Stick the round labels where the numbers would be and write in the digits.
    (Bonus tip: draw the green phone/call icon at the bottom so kids learn to “press call.”)
  2. On the back, add three strips of tape and write down:
    • Mom’s number
    • Dad’s number
    • 911
life skills for kids

That’s it! Your child can now practice dialing anywhere — at home, in the car, or while waiting at appointments.

Once they’ve memorized your number, it’s one less thing to worry about. You’ll feel more at ease knowing they have the skills to reach you when it really counts — and they’ll feel so proud showing off their “grown-up” phone skills.


Need a fun story for 2-7-year-olds?
Ringo Picked is a seriously silly story about a really good raccoon with a very bad habit!

Find the paperback/ebook/audiobook available here.

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7 Questions to Get Your Kid Thinking Like an Entrepreneur (and Making Their Own Money)

I was recently on the Investor Mama podcast to talk about easy ways to coach your kids through money and business topics in a fun way.

I shared seven conversation starters, and each takes just five minutes or less. You can easily start one of these conversations in the car, at bedtime, at bathtime, in the doctor’s office waiting room, or even sitting around the dinner table.

I recommend starting when your kids are in elementary school, but the great news is that these conversations apply to middle schoolers and high schoolers, too.

Before starting these conversations, I’d encourage you to read your kids some picture books on these topics. The Money Smart Kids series is a great place to start to help get their wheels turning about what it could look like to start their own business – as a kid!  

To hear our full podcast conversation, with in-depth examples for each question, listen here (link coming soon).

Remember, these are just a starting place to learn and grow, no wrong answers!

Seven Questions to Get Your Kids Thinking Like an Entrepreneur:

  1. Ask–If you had your own money, what would you buy?

This question creates immediate engagement and helps kids value what comes next. They could brainstorm a list and then pick their Top Three.

You could even help them estimate how much they would have to earn to buy their Top Three items.

This is also a great time to plant the seed about giving.

What type of charity would they want to give to? It can be a fun way to reveal what moves the heart of your child. 

Then – get into questions about creating a business (questions 2-7)

2. Ask – If you were to start a business, what product or service would you sell?

 Here you can discuss…

… products vs. services

… your child’s unique skill set and strengths (they will love hearing from you, and it’s fun to hear what they think their own best skills are)

…what could they make better? A special kind of roller skate, folding laundry, a service for kids to deliver snacks! All ideas are welcome.

3. Ask – Where would you sell XYZ? 

Let them brainstorm locations– school, park, local craft faire, door-to-door. Then make sure to dive into the pros and cons of each (traffic, visibility, safety, cost, fun factor).

4. Ask – How would you let people know about what you are selling? 

When I was in college I read something along these lines:

Selling without advertising is like a man winking at a woman in the dark, he knows what he’s doing, but she doesn’t have a clue!

Make it easy, give people a clue!

So how will your kids be bold and get the word out about their business?

Sign, flyers, talking to people 1:1, website, business cards, email, a short video text to family and friends…

Challenge your kids – how will you make your message short and exciting so that people will want to use your service or buy your product?

5. Ask – How much would you sell it for? 

If your kids are younger, you may have to help with this one.

Have them think about how much their supplies will cost – for the product and advertising.

Then have them think about how much they want to make each time their product sells. Now add those two numbers together to get the price you will charge.

Example: $1 total in supplies and advertising, and I want to make $5 per item after expenses, so I need to sell each one for $6.

Have them wrap up with a gut-check:

Is that price reasonable for the item I’m selling?

Would I pay that much if I saw this item for sale?  

6. Ask – If your product wasn’t selling, what would you do? 

Ideas: Could change the location you sell it.

You could change the advertising message: What words and description would make the item more likely to sell? Handmade, one-of-a-kind, will solve XYZ problem. 

Or do they need to keep pitching and then adapt their product based on feedback?

In the book How to Sell a Rock, all the neighbors say no – but Sebastian keeps adapting his product and message until he finds what his customers really want.  

7. Ask – How will you make sure you have money left to buy more supplies? 

You can help them break their money into three buckets like Sophia did in the book How to Sell a Flower.

She used the three S’s for the money she earned from her business:

Supplies (short-term expenses)

Save (long-term expenses)

Spend (pay yourself and get some of the things you want + need for you) 

Helping your kids have this responsible money mindset early on will help make sure they can stay in business and keep earning their own money!

One Final Ask:

Support these entrepreneur kids when you see them.

I once had two neighbor girls come to my door asking to walk my dog.

My dog is kind of a punk, so I didn’t want to put them in that situation. However, I saw their desire to make money, and I hired them to be mother’s helpers for the summer to entertain my girls while I worked from home. We all won!

Gives these kids the gift of practice: Engage in conversation, Give them at-bats to practice, let them work out the kinks, and then let them earn the money!  

Motivating Kids (and Adults), Free Progress Chart

If I’m being honest, my 10th book was one of the hardest to publish. It had little to do with the book itself, and everything to do with my own motivation…

If I’m being honest, my 10th book was one of the hardest to publish. It had little to do with the book itself, and everything to do with my own motivation.

My goal was to finish writing and publishing Ringo Picked last month…but I was on twelve different planes, bouncing from city to city and it left me feeling overwhelmed.

You’re kind, I’m sure in your head you gave me a pass for not reaching my goal.

But what if I told you that my goal was the same for the last three months and for various reasons I didn’t get there. That changes things a bit.

Obviously life happens, but in reality, I wasn’t making progress because of me.

Sometimes we all need a little motivation to hold ourselves accountable.

Ringo Picked: A seriously silly story about nose picking + practical tips to help quit bad habits to raise healthy, happy kids 3-8yrs finally did get published in June.

I actually made a plan of what needed to happen, set aside an entire day to actually do it without excuse, changed my environment for inspo (cute coffee shops always help me), and planned a reward for myself once I reached my goal.

Whether it’s a bad habit you (or your kids) are trying to quit, or a goal you are trying to reach, visually seeing progress and having a reward to look forward to at the end can help.

I’ve created this free Progress Chart to help your kids (or students) reach their own goals. Get FREE your printable here.

Wondering what my “reward” of choice was? A new coffee mug and a massage! Oh yeah, plus the personal gratification of publishing book ten 😉

October Craft: Ghost Finger Puppets Free Printable

Just print, color, and cut – to make your own little ghost finger puppets this October!

Okay October, I see you right around the corner . . .

So I’m sharing an easy October ‘beyond the book’ craft activity that pairs perfectly with: The Lonely Little House Ghost

Get the free printable here-> https://mymomistheworst.com/ghost-finger-puppet-free-printable/

Just print, color, and cut – to make your own little ghost finger puppets!

I printed on regular paper, but you could also use cardstock if you want to make the puppets more durable.

Suddenly, every weekend in October is booked with a birthday (including mine)! Books make great birthday gift for all ages, but especially kids. Parents really enjoy that a great book is one less large, colorful toy to house and trip over.

Want your own copy of the Lonely Little House Ghost: a book about friendship for kids 3-9yrs? Grab it here.

Boo Hoo from the Lonely Little House Ghost

Share the printable with a teacher for a simple activity that coordinates with the book and ties in the theme of how to make friends!

Three and five year old approved!

Weekend Craft Idea + Free Kids Book about $$$

Download the Beyond the Book activity to make your own Rock Caterpillar this weekend, and get a free kids book about money + creative problem solving!

With a three and five year old, we spend a lot of time at the park.

If your family is in the same boat, you may want to try this simple weekend activity. It will make your park visits more fun, and might even put a smile on the face of a stranger.

The activity – Rock Caterpillars!

You can download the simple instructions and supply list here.

Each time you visit the park you can bring a fun rock to add.

Plus you can “check” on your caterpillar to make sure he’s growing. Hopefully some other people join the fun and you can have new rocks to admire with each visit.

We set up rock caterpillars at various parks across the country during our road trip, and this morning we got to set one up at our very own neighborhood park!

This activity pairs perfectly with my new book that released this week – How to Sell a Rock.

It’s all about a little kidpreneur that has to figure out how to convince his neighbors to buy a rock so that he can afford a new skateboard. Perfect for kids 5-12yrs.

Bonus – the kindle version is FREE on Amazon until Tuesday! Grab it Here, or the paperback here.

Book Description:

Did you ever want something special as a child,
but then your parents said, “No – too expensive.”

Your dreams were dashed.

Oh, Sebastian understands.
But he decides he won’t take no for an answer once he learns he can make the money himself – even as a child.

When a scrappy little kidpreneur needs money for a skateboard, he’s going to have to learn how to turn his neighbor’s no’s into yeses if he wants to get rich selling rocks.

How will Sebastian convince his neighbors that what they really need is a rock?

This fun kidpreneur story teaches:

  • Creative problem solving
  • How to start a business
  • How to make Money
  • How to Save Money
  • Rock Painting Craft Ideas
  • Social Skills
  • Self Reliance
  • Grit
  • Confidence
    • Perfect for home or classroom use
    • Ideal for Ages 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12

Visit: MyMomistheWorst.com for activities and freebies related to the book

Have a great weekend – Cheers!

CA to MI – Road trip!

Free Today! A Magical and Empowering Unicorn Book for Girls

Like all books in the Smart Girl Fairy Tale series, Princess Winnabelle fails often but always learns to solve her own challenging problems. Free today!

Do you have girls, know girls, or teach girls?! Then this is your next read . . .

And it’s FREE today! Just head on over to Amazon and download your free copy here.

This is book three in the Smart Girl Fairy Tale Series. Like all books in the series, Princess Winnabelle fails and learns to solve her own challenging problems. Through her magical adventures she learns teamwork, honesty, friendship, problem solving, and in book three: responsibility and time management when she has to figure out how to care for a pet unicorn AND go to school.

At midnight tonight the ebook will go up to $4.99, so hurry!

The paperback will be out this week.

Princess Winnabelle and the Pet Unicorn (book description):

♥Oh dear!♥ There’s trouble in the magical Land of Five Lagunas.

All Princess Winnabelle wanted was a friend. What could go wrong with that?

Then she finds a baby unicorn in the snow and showers him with love and care. His magical horn grows bigger and brighter each day, UNTIL winter break ends and . . .

Winnabelle quickly finds out that she has no idea how to care for a pet AND go to school. Her perfect pet starts to destroy the castle and Winnabelle is faced with a tough decision.

Winnabelle knows that a princess can be smart, fancy, strong, and fierce. But she still has a lot to learn before she’s ready to rule the kingdom someday.

Can Winnabelle come up with a creative plan to manage her time and responsibilities,

or will the Queen force her to say goodbye to her new friend?

The clock is ticking. Find out now!

The Smart Girl Fairy Tale Series is perfect for girls 3-9 years old.

These modern fairy tales teach important values for raising strong girls:

  • Time Management
  • Responsibility
  • Honestly
  • Problem Solving
  • Friendship
  • Teamwork
  • Growth Mindset
  • Independence
  • Confidence
  • Positive Self-esteem

Each value is wrapped in a sweet story that will keep readers entertained and engaged.

Great for:

  • Girls 3-9yrs
  • Parents
  • Classrooms
  • Churches
  • Bedtime

Collect them all!

FREE ‘Beyond the Book’ activities at MyMomistheWorst.com★

How to Build Positive Self Esteem in Kids, Free Affirmation Cards

For each negative interaction, we need five positive interactions to balance our emotions and confidence.

And it isn’t just an adult thing. Our kids . . .

Sure, its easy to have confidence when life is good.

But one negative interaction can quickly turn things upside down in your head, and the stinking thinking can creep in.

In fact for each negative interaction, we need five positive interactions to balance our emotions and confidence (Gottman).

This isn’t just an adult thing. Our kids have their own soundtracks in their heads, shaped by interactions and events in their day that even a parent might not be aware of.

So how do you help your kids bounce back faster from negative moments? Teach them how to use positive affirmations everyday to build their confidence.

This will help them to remember the positive things about themselves, and to stay focused on who they are beyond the negative interaction they experienced.

Princess Winnabelle, from the Smart Girl Fairy Tale Series, looks in the mirror every morning and recites, “I am strong, I am smart, I am fancy, I am fierce.”

What an empowering way to start the day for a child!

Princess Winnabelle and the Friendship Pie

I’ve put together a FREE .pdf of how to use positive affirmations with kids, as well as positive affirmation cards that you can print out and hang up.

Bonus, there is one page of blank cards for your child to write their own empowering affirmations.

Go out and raise emotionally resilient kids!

Get a copy of Princess Winnabelle and the Friendship Pie to read along with the activity!

Character Interview: A Chat with Princess Winnabelle from the Smart Girl Fairy Tale Series

Mollie: Was it hard to ask your friends for help when you made a big mistake with the Friendship Pies?

Winnabelle: Oh. You heard about that? Yeah that was a pretty big mess…

This fairy tale interview originally appeared at JanaBuchman.com. Check out Mollie’s Magical Tooth to meet Mollie, the interviewer and friend of Princess Winnabelle!

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Mollie: Hi Winnabelle!

Or shall I call you Princess Winnabelle? I’ve never met a princess before!

Winnabelle: You’re sweet. Winnabelle is fine.

M: I’m so excited to meet you! Tell me more about your kingdom! Do you have ice cream shops there?

W: Ice Cream. Who doesn’t love ice cream?! We actually make our own with a special recipe. You have to try it!

Anyways, back to the kingdom.

I live in the Land of Five Lagunas. It’s named after the five lakes there: Onyx Lake, Ruby Lake, Diamond Lake, Sapphire Lake, and Emerald Lake. It’s a very fancy place, filled with magic and fun!

M: Do you have a pet?

W: Funny you should ask. I recently got a pet UNICORN named Wish. As you can imagine, it was a challenge to learn how to care for a growing pet! You can read all about it in ‘Princess Winnabelle and the Pet Unicorn’ (releasing Fall 2020).

M: Oh, I love unicorns as well! They brought me to Magic Land when I visited it with Miss Pearlwirl. I’m sure you will have a lot of fun together! Does Wish have a stable or does he sleep in your room with you? I’m not sure how big bedrooms are in a castle!

W: We have a unicorn stable that Wish plays at every afternoon, but at bedtime he loves being near me.

I gave him a bed in my room, but he just outgrew it. I have to save up my allowance to get him a new one. I guess that’s what happens when animals are well cared for – they grow super fast!

M: I’ve heard you’re making friendship pies once a year. This sounds like a lovely idea on how to celebrate friendship! What else do you like to do with your friends?

W: My friends are the best. We do lots of fun stuff together, like sleepovers and talent shows!

As long as they’re around, we always come up with creative ideas so we’re never bored.

M: Was it hard for you to ask your friends for help when you lost track of time and jeopardized the making of the friendship pies? 

Oh, you heard about that? Yeah, that was a pretty big mess.

Thankfully, my friends are always there for me. With their help, I managed to make things right for the Queen. Afterwards we had a picnic, ate pie, and laughed until our bellies hurt!

I think it turned out alright 🙂

M: As a princess, are you nervous to take over the kingdom one day? 

W: Sure, a little. I make mistakes all the time. But every time I make a mistake or try something new, I am better prepared for whatever comes my way.

M: How will you rule your kingdom when it’s your turn? Is there anything you want to change?

W: Actually, the Queen is pretty amazing. She’s fair and kind. I hope I can rule just like her.

Oh wait . . . there is one thing I will change.

When I’m Queen everyone will wear tennis shoes with their fancy clothes!

We’ll be fancy on top, fast on the bottom!

M: You’re a pretty cool princess, I like that you’re smart and strong! I always thought princesses need to follow etiquettes and weren’t allowed to climb on trees or roll down hills. Do you hear this often?

W: Yes! People are always so surprised to meet a princess that doesn’t mind getting dirty and loves solving challenging problems. The Queen often reminds me that she’s preparing me to take over the kingdom one day, and I have a lot to learn.

I learn best by trying things, making mistakes, and improving for next time. But, I ALWAYS have a lot of fun in the process.

M: Thank you so much for spending time with me, Winnabelle! I have a treehouse in our backyard, it’s not as big as a castle but I have all my treasures in it. Wanna see? Let’s go and climb up another tree!

Get your FREE ebook of “Princess Winnabelle And the Friendship Pie” here!

Smart Girl Fairy Tales on Amazon

What to Feed Your Toddler Next: 5 Easy, Healthy Recipes

When my daughter entered the finger food stage, I was elated. We could all sit down together to eat as a family. I didn’t have to airplane homemade baby food purees into her mouth between each bite I took.

As a writer, I sometimes get asked to do fun things like write a guest post for an important site like Kindred Bravely, or read one of my stories to kids in the hospital via a virtual story time. This makes my day.

The Coys

If you have a toddler at home, check out this guest post –

5 Easy Finger Food Recipes for Babies and Toddlers

When my daughter entered the finger food stage, I was elated. We could all sit down together to eat as a family. I didn’t have to airplane homemade baby food purees into her mouth between each bite I took. We could even eat some of the same foods. It was messy, but it was exciting.

It would have been easy to just let her live on the snack foods she immediately liked. But I wanted to make sure she was also eating real, nutrient-rich foods that helped her grow. And truth be told, I didn’t want her to grow up like me – a kid who exclusively craves Pop-Tarts and whipped cream and doesn’t eat vegetables until college (only a slight exaggeration).

Continue reading…

The Coys

Parents, How Are Your Emotions Handling this Crisis?

Parents – If you’re emotions are vacillating from day to day (or moment to moment), I encourage you to print these words and hang them somewhere your family can reflect on them daily.

How are your emotions handling this crisis? That’s a loaded question, isn’t it?!

I’ve thought about it the last few days, and as a parent of two little ones, here’s where I stand…

Obviously, I want this to pass. I want our nations health and economy to be in a better place, I want to move on to making plans and looking forward to the future, I want to wear fewer hats in a single day, and I want to have people over.

On the other hand, I know as soon as all this is over, I’m going to deeply miss it. Specifically, the extra family time, a mostly unhurried pace, and being pushed to try new things that I wouldn’t have done otherwise.

Even in knowing that I’ll miss it, I often get frustrated right now.

My husband and I work full-time and have two young kids in the house – two and four. The house is loud and messy. My husband and I manage work and parenting in two hour blocks, always feeling one step behind in each. All of our plans that we were looking forward to for months are slowly being cancelled. And my four year old reminds me daily that she just wants to play at the park and hug her friends.

I know sweetie. Me too.

And thus, my grumpiness creeps in. This crisis highlights some not-so-pretty traits about myself that I don’t have to face often when life is “normal.”

And my feelings are real and valid, but it doesn’t serve me, or my family, to spend too much time hanging out with my negative attitude.

If we let ourselves think something for too long, it becomes our reality.

So I decided that my brain was in need of a new, more positive, default message. One I could read every day, like a mantra or prayer, to start my emotional responses from a better, more serving, space.

I can’t always control circumstances, but I am in charge of my reactions. If I fill my heart and mind with good, good is more likely to pour out when I’m pressed in uncomfortable situations. So I wrote down the positive thoughts I want to start my day with, and hung them in my home.

If you’re emotions are vacillating from day to day (or moment to moment), I encourage you to print these words and hang them somewhere your family can reflect on them daily.

Choosing This Moment - Quarentine Mantra or Prayer by JK Coy

Here is the 8×10 .pdf: Choosing This Moment – Quarantine Mantra or Prayer by JK Coy

If you’re a parent of young kids and need some reading material, check out these titles.

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